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Silence Doesn’t Save Lives
It was a beautiful day in May when Evan and her fiancé attended a friend’s wedding. The atmosphere was filled with joy as everyone danced, laughed, and celebrated with champagne. As the evening ended, it became clear that Evan and her fiancé had enjoyed one too many drinks. Yet, nobody intervened as they got into their car and drove away. The bride later confessed that she thought about saying something but ultimately chose not to act. If she had, perhaps Evan would still be alive today.
Because nobody stopped them from leaving the wedding intoxicated, Evan’s fiancé crashed their car into a pole, tragically killing her and injuring himself.
Drunk, drugged, and distracted driving (the 3 D’s) claim thousands of lives each year. While education and legislation are important in tackling this epidemic, there is a more effective—and simpler—solution:
"I am only one, but still, I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do the something that I can do." Edward Everett Hale
Please sign the "Courage to Intervene Promise" and Help Save Lives
“My daughter was killed in a single vehicle crash caused by her father who had a .22 BAC and [was high on] marijuana. I talked to him on the phone and begged him not to take Cydnye with him, but he didn't listen. I feel so guilty, I should have done something more, threatened to call the police or something. Why didn’t I?” - Karen E. Ring
It’s Up To Us
The Courage to Intervene Promise is not just a commitment; it’s a moral obligation to act when we witness unsafe behavior, especially in critical situations like impaired driving. Each of us holds the power to prevent devastating tragedies by stepping up—whether that means confronting someone directly, calling for help, or providing support. This promise underscores the vital importance of speaking out and taking decisive action to ensure the safety of our communities.Imagine this: you see a friend who’s had too much to drink at a party, swaying toward their car—and you stand by, silent. You watch as a family member answer a call behind the wheel, fully aware of the danger, yet you do nothing. You let a friend leave your house to drive to the store after smoking marijuana, thinking it’s just down the street.
These scenarios play out countless times every single day, often ending in arrest, shame, humiliation, and hefty fines—troubles that could have been easily avoided. Tragically, some end in injury or death. In the aftermath, the haunting echoes of "What if?" linger in our minds, leaving us with the burden of regret.
•If only I had stopped that friend from driving drunk.
•If only I had spoken up when I saw that driver pick up their phone.
•If only I had urged my friend to stay home after using marijuana.
•If only I had the Courage to Intervene.
It’s time to break the cycle of silence. We have the power to ensure that bravery is celebrated and intervention is the norm. Together, we can create a safer environment for everyone. It’s up to us to take action and help save lives!
“I have lost a friend this week. We met in college, and both had two beautiful daughters that went to preschool together. She was the passenger of a vehicle driven by her drunken boyfriend. He was driving the wrong way on a one way street. He was going to hit another vehicle head on but swerved so impact was on the passenger side, which killed her instantly. Why didn’t she stop him from driving or find another way home?” - Nicole Ramos
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Stand Up, Speak Up, Save Lives
Together, we can shift the narrative from “someone else will handle it” to “I can make a difference.” Let’s empower each other to be vigilant, compassionate, and proactive in protecting our communities from the devastating effects of the 3D’s. By doing so, we not only save lives but also foster a sense of shared responsibility and care among all road users.
One courageous voice can stop one deadly choice. Have the Courage To Intervene.
